And then comes no
more cuddling or alone time or lying in bed till 11am on a Saturday morning
And THAT’S how that poem is meant to end!
It’s the part they fail to mention, when you’re all smitten,
with hearts in your eyes, planning your life and your perfect family with your
perfect guy. Babies are hard work! And extremely demanding! Cute, but
I had a moment this morning where I suddenly missed lying in
my hubstopher’s arms while watching a movie.
Or just lying in my hubstopher’s
Our baby co-sleeps – something I do not regret and am planning to
do until she is 1 years old and no longer breastfeeding.
But until then, no cuddle
cuddle for him. Or me.
Fortunately, I married the best guy in the whole entire
world, and he is totally patient and supports our reasons to co-sleep but I
think that we need to somehow work our way around it.
Maybe more date nights?
Maybe put her to bed earlier?
So obviously, the first thing that came to mind now was to
create a romantic cuddling rendezvous spreadsheet time table, so that we could
work out exactly WHERE AND WHEN we can have some time together.
But hey, amidst the high school drama, homework, cooking
supper, worship team commitments and other stuff, fitting in some cuddle time
might be near impossible if we do not schedule it.
And this, dear readers, is why it is SO important to marry
for LOVE :)